Why do feminists claim feminism is not man-hating, when evidence shows otherwise?

Look at feminist writers such as Andrea Dworkin, and other "radical" feminists, look at how these writers claim all heteroual is .. look at the way any man who wants a traditional non-emasculating, non promiscuous woman, is seen as "misogynist". And if you need further proof, look at the legal system; there is almost no punishment if a woman falsely accuses a man of , but the man can go to jail just on the word of a woman, in divorce court women who cheat on their husbands are frequently awarded child custody and alimony...all of this brought on by FEMINISM, so why don't the feminists just stop denying it and admit to what the feminist movement is really all about; the hatred of men and the promotion of the superiority of women. Why not just be straightforward about their REAL goals? I don't get it.